I have something to say. Nothing weird there, huh?

People my age, 19-20, people not my age 15 to the age of 40, they all complain about one thing. The lack of a partner, that one and only one they would like to put all their doubts, their dreams,their affection without thinking twice, without worrying if it would backfire because truthfully, in this world, the purest love is not really that attainable. People cheat, people hurt, people are selfish and that is one of the worst thing to have within one self if u are searching for real love. But. It is necessary to defend yourself if all else fails. I am not going to talk about how to acquire real love because as you know by now, I am no expert.

However, i am amused by how people are in a rush these days to settle. No, not settle down, just plain settle. They have minumum requirements embedded in their imaginary application for the position of the 'One'. Not THE One but a 'one'. The one they would make do with. The one they can live with. Yes, sure no one is perfect but when you know that the person you are with is not the one you might want to be with the rest of your life, why settle? Singaporeans, I believe are raised that way.The government have education systems writtten down to ensure a successful future. Have financial plans to ensure we never fail too terribly, etc. We all have marvellous systems that you skip the part where you have to make a draft. Remember? In secondary school, we all had to all make a draft first before the real composition. Well, in real life, here, we skip that part and THAT is the general guideline where people just follow.

And in relationships, we try to have a system too. Did not get an A? Settle for a B or a 'just passed' grade. That would suffice. And when there is no the 'One right now'. They search, yearn, cry, moan, whine about when they would come into your life and make it complete. Another fucking individual who would make you complete? Are u handicapped without that person? Are you?

Why, then can't you have fun without them. No not the club till your feet hurts, till u drink and cannot stand, not the date till you drop fun. Just plain contented with being by yourself. And that person will eventually come but why then are you whining till they do?

ARGH!

I would elaborate but that would take 20 pages, hell, I would even write a book about this. I am not judging, just irritated with this issue. People, go see the sunrise and while u are there, jump into the beach and drown or something. Maybe you'll meet a mermaid and she'll be THE ONE. Tsk